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K could you please answer this question, I really need help?

I think I don't have any self esteem, like I care about myself but I put everybody else before me I don't know if I really love myself. when things come to getting my life straight I don't follow through, when its to help someone else I always follow through. most people in my life take advantage of me and think I'm stupid well they treat me like I am. what are the steps to working on me and feeling happy? how can I improve on following through and building self worth. I'm definitely not happy

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I can relate to what you are saying.... The best way to improve on you is to put YOU first. Dont stop doing for others though, unless it involves taking you away from YOU. You are allowed to be happy and deserve to be as happy as everyone else you serve. Do they reciprocate in any way?? If not, then you dont need to be doing for them anyway. You have to put your foot down... and take care of your own needs..... and then enjoy your accomplishments without guilt.

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No they don't do for me the same way I do for them
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The first step begins with you. :0)
Just know that you are just as special and deserving as all the people you put before yourself. ;0)

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With all due respect, you need professional counseling.
... & dump the boyfriend.
I read your prior question also. You're not ready to be in a relationship.

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Prove to yourself that you are the person you love. Or, try to be the person you would love, just not someone else. I think you just want to change who you are.

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Work on what YOU need...a good job? a dream job, even? better health? Think of yourself as your own parent and care for yourself as a parent would a child. It's really up to you, like has been said before maybe therapy would help.

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I like the way you put that. That's a good idea
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A good way of seeing it for myself
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this is not about the question, but if you support breast cancer, set your account to donate money to it. it is free and easy

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You have to fix yourself before you can help anyone else at this time it's ok to put yourself first and not feel bad about it sometimes it feels good to help other people but you can't expect anything back it's your responsibility to make yourself happy

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