Should I file for divorce?
I was married to my husband for 8 years. It wasnt all bad but I would consider most of the relationship he was very demeaning and controlling. I ended up leaving the relationship and he tried to get me back for a year and I didnt because he was still acting crazy. During this whole time he never stopped telling me he loved me. A week ago we both broke it off with who we were seeing at the time and got back together. He wasnt mean to me but he said he doesnt like the person that I have become. I am now much more confident in myself and have a great future ahead of me. He couldnt say one good thing about the new me and he said he needed to be in a relationship where he is the alpha male. I have my opinions and I think they should be valued. Long story short, we broke it off and within the day he was back to his ex. I found out he never stopped talking to her the time we were supposed to be working on things. I told him I was going to be filing for the divorce and he says he doesnt want me to because he doesnt know what the future is for him and I and he's not sure how he feels about her. I still care alot about him. Do I file to for divorce?