i am really bossy to my bffs so now me and my 1 bff are never gonna talk to each other but shes in my dance crew? dont ever be bossy, and make them jealose of something u can do well and they will be like ur servents, and make sweet choices and umm.... oh ya! bake them cookies! bye!
You are going to need to make a conscious effort to be nice. You will need lots of practice. If you don't know what to say write a script. Intentionally practice on people. take note of how they respond, you may like what you hear and see. Just remember you may be the only person who was nice to them in a very long time. Be one of the "good guys".