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People (especially other woman) Think they're better than me..even though I'm in my late 20's and know this is childish I can't help but let it bother me. Whenever I try to become friends with another female they act all stuck up to me. or move away...I thought this was in the past but apparently people still belive in these childish ways. How can I overcome this and not let it bother me.

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You need to start believing in yourself and loving yourself. once you reach that point nothing that other people say about you should matter. you know the kind of person you are and if they don't bother to gett to know you then that's there problem and you can't change that. you can only be yourself and wait for the right people to come around and want to know you for you. it'll happen just give it time.

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No I don't think its childish I think its human nature. I would suggest for you to find friends that don't have many friends or need and want them. Im not asian but I go to alot of asian parties and they act stuckup to me too and they even try to flirt with my husband right in front of me.which if they dont be careful I might just show them why Im better then they are.

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I understand completely. It happened to me too. My advice is to become friends with down to earth women who are a little bit older than you that you look up to. Be a true friend to all and let go of people who bring you down. Make a list of your "friends" who act stuck up with you and see what they have in common. Are they all popular? Are they all beautiful? Maybe you have to broaden your base of "potential friends" to women you wouldn't ordinarily hang out with. I'm sure you know many nice women who would love to be your friend.

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Just try to ignore people. Women are catty. And I have to say the same for myself because sometimes I'm catty. But just ignore it. Brush off your shoulders haha.

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Women are naturally jealous & competitive of each other, you need to just overlook that, I'm sure you also have some of those tendencies, we all do. Just be a good friend to them and they'll come around when they know that they cannot get to you.

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search "hotdamnirock f it philosophy" on youtube. should help

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Take it to God in prayer.

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Get your ego under control. There are lots of sites on line that can help you get your ego out of the way so it doesn't make you take everything so personally. Most of the problems in the world are because of people's egos. Not eggos. They're pretty good for an easy breakfast. : )

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