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I am a 15 year old girl... and there is one boy who loves me but i don't wanna be in a relationship so soon...
so i told him to wait.. but as the time gets closer and closer i donno what to do... I can't say yes but i don't wanna break his heart what should i do???

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Love is a strong emotion and it makes people very emotional especially when you are young and in love. If he truly loves you he will respect your decision not to be involved in a relationship so soon. I suggest you don't put a time limit on when you will be ready like when I'm 16 or whatever. If you love something you set it free and when and if the time is right and he is the one you will meet up with him later in your life. If he loves you now he will love you even more later especially since he can't have you.

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love sucks and i guess you already know it from your personal exp. but you dont wanna admit it to your self
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what do you mean time gets closer? what was the time range you gave him? regardless! if you love him then be with him if not then you should be honest with him and tell him it's not about ime it's about you. You are not ready yet.

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i did tell him he proposed to me when i'm in 0th i told him that I don't like it and to give me time..
he asked how much i was too much pissed off so told that my 10th should finish
so am in 10th now so getting tensed....

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The main question is - DO YOU LOVE HIM...??
this is the thing that matters the most... if this question is unanswered.. it could possibly ruin the life of both of you!!

P.S i guess you are residing in India.. if i am not wrong!! (i possibly could also be)

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exactly!
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:) i know...!!!
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i guess so.. but I feel that i shouldn't cheat my parents and to some extent friends
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wooah.... same thinking as of mine!!
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No such thing as 'love' at your age... Just ask him to wait longer and if he cant, well it proves he never 'loved' you.

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thnxx..
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Um... Love doesn't have an age limit.
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Yes it does... right now at her age..she's confused and others at the same age are confused too, but when they go older, the realize the true facts of love
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Let him know your not ready yet, just be honest, tell him you need more time.

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*cough* *cough*
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i did tell him he proposed to me when i'm in 0th i told him that I don't like it and to give me time..
he asked how much i was too much pissed off so told that my 10th should finish
so am in 10th now so getting tensed....
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Okaaaay ,, if you love him be with him because the more you turn away the less hes gonna goo . your gonna lose him if you dont say anything.... please make the right decision and not the wrong on YOLO!!!!! ... go find him and tell him how you feel , you dont have to rush things ... XD

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I am reading between the lines here. "As time gets closer and closer..." Don't do it. And do not let him pressure you into it. Also, you are not of age. If I am mistaken, apologies, however I do not think I am. Just saying...

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i am now in 10th and i tld him let my 10th get over so...
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Thank you for commenting. Follow your head not your heart. When you are ready to be in a "relationship" you will know. If this is the guy for you, he will wait. I want you to be safe, that's all. I am old enough to be your parent and I am not disrespecting your friend by any means what-so-ever, I just know how guys can be. I wish you nothing but the best. Enjoy your evening.
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Sweet girl. I read your comments to other members. You have your entire life ahead of you. I truly hope you will think about any proposals at your age. Live your life, reach for the sky, accomplish your goals. This boy won't be the first in your life and certainly will not be your last. Take care.
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thnx alooot
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You're welcome. Enjoy your day!
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Waiting till you are ready shows maturity & sensibility. Encourage friendship but Let this young man know Friendship is all you can offer for the time being. If he doesn't respect this then he doesn't deserve your friendship let alone your love later on if that was to happen. Explain that you are not ready for a relationship & you understand if he wants to find one elsewhere.

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