"... So why does she cry herself to sleep, at night? Why do I have to work so hard, to make things right? To fall in love came naturally, to make it last is sovhard you see, I'm caught in between, the two sides of love ..."
Its not women that are hard. its RELATIONSHIPS that are hard. As you grow older (and more mature) it becomes easier. (Not because you get smarter, but because you realize what stupid things you "thought" were important are not so big) So the equation of a relationship is uneven, the knowledge of how to 'balance' it is the tough part.
the hard work is actually coming from the effort and striving to remain ignorant. ever tried to really understand a person? your first mistake is putting this divide by labelling men and women in the first place. we are all human beings. we are all hard work at times, and yet at other times we need to ask where does our deepest happiness come from? other human beings. try seeing the world as a stage and don't take it so f%#&^ seriously.
I'm certain women see that men are just as much hard work. News flash for you buddy. Relationships are hard. You have to work at it every day, and it isn't this 50/50 equal deal that a lot of people make it out to be. Anyone who tells you that, is in for a lot of failed relationships of their own. Relationships have to be 100% from both people. You have to give it your all, or it won't work. Even if you both give it your all though, you can't expect it to be easy. What is the purpose, fulfillment, or worth in a victory, if there is no challenge in it?
Because they are more emotional. Since the emotive side of the brain is better connected with the scientific side, it meses with it. So many times, women feel more their emotions than men do. So many times, its not as easy for them to handle their emotions as it is for men. Gby