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I literally feel like my husband hates me lately. Not sure how to pull away without making things worse....any suggestions?

I want to give him space without ruining our relationship but need suggestions of how to do that when we obviously live together.

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This is not the time to pull away .. THIS is a time for pulling close. This is a time for you to reach out and ask him how you as a couple can make things right again.

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You need to talk. Ask him what's wrong in a kind and gentle manner - and how you can help.

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try sleeping in another room or with your children or playing with your children or staying at a female friends house or family,you could simply go to another room where hes not at in the house maybe going out for a little while giving him time alone at home

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He just needs you to be understanding. He is probably stressed out right now. I am sure you are reading him wrong and he doesn't hate you.

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That's not possible. He shouldn't act like he hates you and make you feel this way in your own home. Make some sense, girl.

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don't be a nag it makes men look for other options

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That's exactly what he thinks I am:( so he probably is looking for other options....I on the other hand don't try to nag I just try to express my feelings and always fail apparently
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when you want something done make him think it's his idea
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Talk with him maybe he's stressed out, the last thing you should do is pull away from him.

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Tough one when things seem so not intense ask him if he would like to talk about you life and what can be done to fix or reassure our relationship

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Hey :) I know the perfect solution for your situation and I've seen it work in multiple lives. Read the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" and it was written by John Gray. This book has changed my view on the way men operate and how women operate. It's a really interesting book. It helped me in so many areas. It's not one of those boring books, and the guy who wrote it knows what he is talking about! You'll see what I'm talking about once you read it. I can guarantee it will help you in your marriage if you are willing to make thing as lovely as before :) It's also a pretty funny book, and so detailed, yet easy to understand! It helped me in my life that's for sure. I'm gonna read it again cause it's so helpful. Lol

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