Different culture and diff nations have different problems, any way we in India we ask our daughters to leave our houses only when they get married, we believe the outer world is not safe enough for a girl to live alone. Still we search for them any paying guest status so that they can live safely and with full security. So if you can arrange any place and room apartment for her where she can be both safe and secure you ask her to shift there. May God save our children from any kind of troubles and sufferings in their life.
T he first and foremost task in moving your child out of house by first identifying where you are right now? Are you in a place where your boundaries are being crossed and you need to establish some limits. Try to find out the emotional thinking and their weak point and try to strengthen their emotional buttons.
Why not let her live there but tell her she has to pay you rent and save the money for her so one day she will have a big down payment for her own house. It won't be long and you may have to move in with her your getting older too you know. My daughter lives on her own but she can't afford to pay for electric and she really is not safe either. I worry about her every day and she is in her early 20's and her house is totally paid off. Your being stingy to want her out on one hand and on the other your wanting her to become independent. Why not try the middle ground until she is married?