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Why do other people have a problem with dating outside your race?

I have a boyfriend and he is black and I am white. Well my parents and his parents don't really care they actually support us. But our friends at school are giving us a bunch of crap about it. My so called friend said to me why do you date he is black and you are white. One time some person I didn't know came up to me and told me to stick with my own kind. I love him so much and I just don't know what to do anymore can some help me.

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It doesn't matter the race. As long as you love each other. Next time someone says something say "It doesn't matter the race as long as we love each other. And you obviously dont know what true love is"

I think that is really nice :) Dont break up because of whatever someone else does. They're stupid anyway.

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it doesn't matter if it's love it's love there is nothing to worry about

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"... Little girl,
she's no sista she is white,
but she loves a brutha,
bringin' him home to meet her folks tonight,
Mom and Dad don't understand,
we're all the same inside,
they just don't realize,
that love is always colorblind ..." ------------ Firehouse - (Love Don't Care)

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wow. word.
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wow amazing
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If you really love him then you shouldn't care what other people say.

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if your family supports you guys, and you love him and he loves you who cares what other people say. They have no right to judge us. Is funny I say this now because I used to be a huge supporter of monoracial dating. I thought that with the difference in cultures and upbringing it would be so hard to maintain a relationship with someone from a different race. What made me change my mind was that I couldn't date my own race because I truly didn't have that much in common with them. I have only had one girlfriend from my own race and I am currently dating someone that is Polish, Slovak and German mix. I am Mexican Basque mix. We fight like all couples, but she is the only one that can handle my craziness and vice versa. I am light skin and she is very light skin, so I guess it doesn't make much of a difference to people. However, color is only skin deep. without skin we all look the same. So who cares what they think, enjoy your life and your relationship.

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They just do. Ignore them.

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just dont worry about wat other people say,its ur relationship

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well it is your life and you have 100 % of all your rights stick with him you probably won't get him back if you lose him

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If your parents are good with it, you are 90 percent there. If anyone else comments negatively you can freely say it is your business and you prefer not to discuss it. Then change the subject.

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