I think dating websites are SUPER DANGEROUS. I mean hey! Stranger Danger! Some men out there aren't really in it for the relationship and there has been kidnapping in many situations. If you do date online, go somewhere public where everyone can see you. I STRONGLY reccommned if you bring a friend or friends to toy know, if anything goes wrong. If he asks for you and him to go to his house, then bring along your friends also. If you don't like the idea of bringing friends on your date, then if you guys go somewhere private like his house for a date, you could have a couple of friends to secretly come with you and watch y'all (like outside and look through the window) so that if anything goes wrong, they will help you. If you are doing this plan, then I suggest that your partner sits with the back of his head facing the window and you facing the window. Sorry if it was long Lol!
You should not be looking to date someone online. You have no idea who the person is and if they are telling you the truth. You could be setting yourself up with someone who could hurt you. At 14, you should be meeting people at school.
I think they are great! I did not meet my husband on a dating web sight but I did meet him online and we chatted on the comp for about 2 weeks meet in person dated for 3 mo he deployed for 7 and then got married 2 weeks after that deployment and have been married almost 8 yrs! Just be careful. Trust your gut feeling if something feels off and meet on a group date or in a very public place until your feel comfy!
I've dated a few guys that I met online. It was interesting because I never would have met them otherwise but that was also the reason why none of them worked out. The connection didn't have a natural progression.