How do you tell if a guy likes you or if he's being nice?
this man I work with...who I'm very attracted to....I feel is giving me mixed signals. he has asked me twice to come listen to him play music...both times I've already had other plans. he comes into my work area and talks to me. when I'm not in my work area, I catch him looking for me...just to look though. we were talking about movies yesterday and I told him about a movie I rented and he told me to let him know about it. so I sent him a message on Facebook. he has not read the message but has been on Facebook since I wrote the message. I want to tell him but don't want to look like an idiot if he don't feel the same about me. I have very strong feelings for him.