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how do I get a guy to stop flirting with me without being rude?

I have a boyfriend of 7 months that I'm in love with and this guy keeps flirting and texting me.

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Huh if I were in this situation I would not even worry about being impolite or rude to him I would let him know where I stand at considering if he knew I had a boyfriend. Anyways if you are still wanting to not seem rude to him then just tell him "I already have a boyfriend and I don't like the fact of you hitting and flirting with me so please stop texting and flirting with me" and be sure to change your cell phone number not even giving him the new number and if do then you are just asking for a rude awakening breakup from your boyfriend or him going and finding this dude and beating the BANANAS out of him. And plus on top of all this be sure to also let your boyfriend know about this so it won't be a secret being kept from him. TRUST main ingredient to any relationship....

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Let him know you seeing somebody right now.

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say: hey i dont want to be rude or mean or anything tell him you dont want to offend him . i have a boyfriend & id appreaciate it if you would stop flirting with me....

or just ask you boyfriend to go talk to him xdd

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Tell him, politely but firmly, that you are in a committed relationship with another person. Tell him that his flirting and texting is making you very uncomfortable, and that if he doesn't stop it, you will report him to the guidance personnel at your school. And if he doesn't comply, do just that. You are well within your rights--and it isn't rude; HE is the rude one here!

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just ask him to please leave you alone and he will still be a friend of yours. If not then he is just lost

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Talk about your boyfriend, even if you don't have one. Lol, I'm sure he will eventually get the hint.

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Tell him you are going to the police because of a stalker which is him.

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Just tell him that you are going out with me :)

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Sometimes you have to be rude or aggressive :/ my girlfriend yeah one of her friends is now texting her hey baby I#039;m horny wanna come over and sleep together. When he knows I#039;ve been dating her and we are madly in love and he touches her in a flirty way too. And she keeps telling him to buzz of but it doesn#039;t work so she yelled at him and well hopefully it#039;s stopped.... But ya sometimes you have to be rude cause guys can just be selfish assholes. Hope it works out for the best!

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R u sure he's flirting with you?

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yes he's flirting when he's saying I'd hit it just saying. or why you gotta be so fine. that's what he's doin
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If you can't ignore it, just tell him you appreciate the attention, but your seeing someone right now. If he is a real hard head, have your boyfriend text him and explain the situation.

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flirt w/ another guy to give him a hint

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ok i know girls love to sugar coat things and be nice but im telling you sometimes (like this) are times when brutal honesty works best. there are 2 things you can do. 1-tell him to leave you alone our you will file for sexual harassment. 2-tell your boy friend and he will handle for you, whether that is beating his a$$ or threatening to, either way works.

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Bring him a beer and go make dinner.

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are you saying that "you're going out with one guy and another is flirting with you" or "your going out with a guy and he's flirting with you"?

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She is in a relationship with someone. Somebody else is bothering her.
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then just tell him straight out don't bother me
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just lie to him saying you have a boyfriend

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Act Awkward around then.. it's a laugh but it works :D

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