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What should I do?

My best friend started dating this guy a couple months ago. I am really happy for her, but ever since they started dating I never hear from her. We live two hours away from eachother, so we usually just text eachother. Not hearing from her has made me angry and upset about it. I am so angry that I don't want to text her about anything. I want to say something but don't know if I should. What should I do, if anything?

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Confront her about it and assert your desire to keep your friendship with her. If you don#039;t, this is how it will end. Remind her that she has a life outside of the realm known as love. If she doesn#039;t improve then she obviously thinks of you as not important enough for her time. If so, don#039;t give it to her and Make new friends if possible.

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you should try to contact her and also you should realise that it is her boyfriend if she wants to keep it going she should spend as much time as possible with him

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Happens to me with my best friend about three months ago,we hardly ever talk anymore.SHE STOLE MY BUDDY!!!!

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Go get drunk and meet someone yourself and don't be so codependant. People grow, APART!

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So many rude answers tonight! Why does she have to get drunk to meet someone? Call your friend and tell her how much you miss her. Even though she is spending a lot of time with her boyfriend it only takes a few minutes to whip out a text every now and then. If you really were friends for a long time don't give up on her too easily. Sometimes friendships take hard work just like any other kind of relationship. Cut her some slack if love is a new experience but let her know that she is important to you and you want to remain important to her as well. There is plenty of room in everyone's life for both boyfriends and girlfriends. Good luck.

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