Would you consider this cheating?
You have been in a committed relationship for 1 1/2 years. You and your boyfriend/girlfriend have the same model phone and you pick up what you think is your phone and open it and find a text and open and read the text. As you read you realize this isn't you phone and the text is awful personal. You get curious and read from the beginning. You find that the person you are with has been texting an ex and been saying they love them, want to be with them, and all sorts of romantic things to them, things you wish they would say to you but haven't. When confronted your boyfriend/girlfriend says they are just toying with the ex. Is this cheating in your opinion?