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Do you think 16 is too young to move out?

My mom is okay with it, but my grandma keeps breathing down my moms throat and making everyone argue.. I'm 16, I'll be 17 in July. I have a 16 month old son, and I'm finishing school with my High School diploma this year. Do you think I'm old enough to move out?

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Where are you going to live? Legally you can't sign any contracts - like lease agreements, and you are still bound by child labor laws which means that you can only work certain hours, which will also put a limit on how much you are able to earn, to cover expenses.

Moving out isn't all it's cracked up to be, really, it's not.

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My boyfriend has a job and we have a house picked out. Hes 20 and can sign everything. And were rooming with my friend and her bf who also has a job and another vehicle. So were spliting all the bills and will have 2 cars.
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I also get a social security check.
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Why do you want to move out? How do your parents feel about this? Every situation is different. But really, moving out and growing up isn't all that. Unless you have a real need, stay home and enjoy your young, adolescent years.
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If your boyfriend is 20, and you are 16 - depending on what state you are in, you being with him could be illegal. You could be putting him at risk for potential felony charges, jail time and being labeled a sex offender for the rest of his life. Something to seriously consider before moving in with him.
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We live in a state where it is okay with parental permission, And I have that (:
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Most important thing is to have a steady income which can support you. Doesn't matter your age. This is hard to accomplish as an adult, much less a teen. You don't give the proper information in your question to answer, so my guess is you aren't prepared to move out and be a single mother.

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Like I said, My boyfriend has a job and we have a house picked out. Hes 20 and can sign everything. And were rooming with my friend and her bf who also has a job and another vehicle. So were spliting all the bills and will have 2 cars. So we have everything planned out. I have a budget and everything. I get a social seurity check each month so rent is already covered.
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Your mom clearly doesn't like you. Seriously. Why would any parent be okay with that?

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My momma loves me, just saying.
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Maybe she isn't moving that far away and she has a child so maybe she's proud that her daughter is going out and supporting a family. Or she might just respect her wishes.
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It depends on the maturity of the individual.

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And it could be detrimental to your welfare to do so if you dont have job and all lined up properly,steadily..
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Think about it. Will you be able to pay your own bills, provide for you son, and manage an indipendent life?

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Yes, I can. Mommas just worried because I've never moved out before.
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well momma knows best.
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Yes cause how will u app port urself...?

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Well, your screwed because first, your too young to be having a baby, second, it puts you apart from everyone else and makes people feel awkward around you, even your beloved!

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I'm just kidding, trying to screw with ya, I saw your first comment on the persons post, I think you have it planned out well.
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Be careful on the choices you make. Remember that you're still at a young age and much is yet to come. I don't think it would be good to move out. Trust me you're going to regret it and theres no coming back. What i would do is finish school and go to college and get a degree in whatever you dreamed to become. I know it may not make sense to you but make the right choices and don't move out.

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Yeah nvm. Do what you got to do i guess and follow the path you choose to go. Best wishes to you my friend :)
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I think by looking at your comments you have thought this out and created a plan for your family i have no room to judge and im not here to but your mom has the right to be concern your her daughter and no one wants there child to leave the nest and grow up fast your grandma is concern it seems like too its alot supporting a family at sixteen your taking on alot and im proud but its too much for any sixteen year old to half to do i would remain at home until you get your schooling finish and have enough money saved to get a place of your own cause it can be hard living in a place with others because your not only having to think about your family but the other two people your living with hun just saying enjoy highschool and having support of your family at home and then consider moving out later also its a great opportunity to store and buy furniture. now and keep it at your parents place until you finish hs then get a place and move out after highschool. then you have furniture for your place

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nvm sweetie im sorry you seem mature you had a baby i know you had to grow up by that your just trying to do whats best for your family and your life go for it hun you have support from your family and im proud of you for doing what you half to do for your child and your family im sorry good luck hun
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Well as long as you have a plan, can pay the bills, and can care for your child it seems fine to me.

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You are still young to move out you need to be a least 21 or older to move out .and are you going to be able to pay bills and provide stuff that you and your son need and you are way young to have a son

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Yes

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The only addition I could add is make sure you have a solid relationship with your boyfriend. Plenty of stress and communication challenges will test your patience living with three other people and your young child. Maybe you can all sit down and create a chore list of sorts and some basic ground rules to stick by. Other than that, I'm sure you are wise beyond your years.

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Yes , You should at least wait til your 18.

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