GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN! he can possibly and mostliky kill you! no joke dont look back act as normal as you can like nothing happend pack your stuff while hesgone and get out without a word. when your safe call the police. if you have marks on you take pics now and save them as proof for the police so he can go to jail. that way he cant ever hurt anyone eles. you have the power to procet yourself and others he can possibly hurt in the futer! GOOD LUCK!.
You find someone you can stay with and you leave him. File for divorce, file for a restraining order, and call the police if he comes near. No more talking, no more engaging him. Take self defense classes so you can learn ways to get away from him if he approaches you.
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Last edited at 9:55AM on 5/11/2013
Call 9-1-1 and leave immediately or have him arrested immediately. Go to a shelter. Keep clothes and things available for a quick get-away (especially money). If you don't know the answer already, watch the movie, "Sleeping with the Enemy" - Julia Roberts; "Enough" - Jennifer Lopez showing two different scenarios - many more movies on Lifetime.com. If you can't do that, first build up evidence against him by hiding a camera in a teddy bear or a pillow or something and save money. Take pictures of the bruises. Document every incident at an Emergency Room. If children are involved, this will be even more difficult because you must take them with you to protect them also. Plan your escape with the help of family and friends if possible. If he causes you trouble when you leave, send him a copy of the evidence and put him in jail. Don't forget the restraining order. If you stay, you might hurt him or kill him and go to prison. No one will believe you because you did not leave earlier.
I agree with "OBXconsumer". Get as much evidence of the abuse as possible before you leave your husband. Pictures of bruises and documentation of any hospital visits. You must leave as soon as it is safe to do so. Have your husband arrested, file a police report and get a restraining order. Don't start thinking you are protected by the restraining order. Most men who commit wife abuse, do it again regardless of a restraining order. When you leave, you must be determined to leave your husband forever. He will try to find you and talk you into returning. You must never talk to him again and never see him in person again. If he calls you on the phone, hang up immediately and make a record of that phone call. You will definitely need some help to achieve a safe separation until your divorce. Get counselling and go to a women's shelter. Do not even think of staying with him again. You have probably done this in the past. It was a mistake that must not be repeated.
Have a plan for escape...have a specific exit planned out. Keep a bag of stuff you will need in a secret place. If you can talk to friends and family, TELL, TELL, TELL. The more people who know, the better. And don't allow your husband to talk you into coming back.