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Why are most hearing people impatient to deaf people?

Im deaf and i find it hard to make "hearing" friends because simply because i don't talk right, they feel that if they talk to me i will never understand and they intend to keep me shallow.

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Sweetie, I think you are mistaking embarrassment for irritation. It is common for able bodied people to feel uncomfortable with people with disabilities. They don't know how to act and are afraid of doing something wrong and offending you. Don't give up, be patient, and you may have to kiss a lot of frogs--but there are plenty of people who would love to be friends with you. This thing you see isn't personal, they don't even know you so how could it be? They're just afraid and don't know what a wonderful friend they have just passed up--keep trying.

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Thank you, that was very helpful. It weired but you seem to understand, why?
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Lots of experience living life and observing people interact. I'm glad you found my comments useful. Good luck, Honey.
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don't let that stop you from talking to people..not everyone are jerks :)

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i know (; sometimes life seems tough.
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Life is not fair. Just live with it. Some girls complain that they don't have big jugs, others are angry because their parents are not rich and so on.

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That's different, because being deaf is not something you can CHANGE. But girls who don't have big jugs can get it if they want to. But me there's nothing i can do to change it. So i am trying to "live with it."
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I think they find it hard to let you know what they are saying, and they must just have a hard time understanding you so it is hard to have a really conversation. I would love to be friends with a deaf person, I worked at a camp for girls with disabilities and I didn't get to work with any deaf girls. I have always wanted to learn sign language. But some people just don't know what they have until they have lost it. Can you read lips, or do you need an interpreter?

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I can read lips like a pro. And i use interpter in highschool. So yeah i do both. I do sign language and talk at the same time, but people intend to hate it when in do that. They want me to either talk or sign.
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That's so cool! I don't know why people can be so rude, like its a disability deal with it. And you're probably a great person, they just don't want to take the time to get to know you. Well if they don't want to get to know you then they aren't the type of people you should be hanging out with.
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true, true (: thank you(:
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I think that MOST people that can hear are tolerant and understanding toward deaf people. You're painting with a pretty broad brush.

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I have an awful time understanding people with accents. I am not angry with them, it is me! I get so frustrated that I have the problem.

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