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I feel abused by mother, please help?

all because I had a slush today, my siblings get to have all this pop, drinking right in front of me, please help, what should I say/do? my mothers got it all in her head

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Wait... So you think because you're sibling got soda it's abuse? That isn't abuse..

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How did she abuse you? Can I have some more information so I can answer your question accurately?

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Sounds a little unfair, perhaps, but not actual abuse. Don't say or do anything, and next time don't have a "slush" or whatever treat without permission first.

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I don't believe I understand the situation dear. Could you possibly give more precise details of any sort?

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Dude, your mom gave your sibs soda.SODA. That's not abuse, it's called being fair.

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I'm sorry but that's not being abused try reading the book a child called it by dave pelezer believe me now that's abuse.

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I cried through all of his books. Yet as a man called David he was a fine man. His strength was amazing. I get cold shudders through me as I remember the cleaning the bath episode with the bleach & all the fumes. I remember him in the garage with the dog. I remember his weak father who wouldn't stand up to the mother. Such a sad life to live through.
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Well I dont know your age but im 14 and i feel you man my mom is probably the meanest most hurtful person I know and that's how she is with me what I do is just ignore her if she gets mad or trys to hit you block it put your arms up in front of you like a boxer and block it if she keeps on hitting you lock yourself in a room and protect yourself from her because the same stuff happens to me and ive learned to defend myself or tell my dad or uncles about this to get away from here i hope ive helped you a little at least if not tell her how you feel but it usually never works lol idk try.

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If your mom is hitting you hard enough to leave handprints or bruises and you have told your family the next best step is your school counselor. I am proud of you for not hitting her back.
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Child abuse is such a hidden affair often for years before its brought to light. I agree with you souix
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sorry thats not abuse, we all have rents who seem unfair, you never get used to it

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So when my mom hits me with a belt, hand, 2x4, shoe, wire, rope... I cant defend myself?
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where did you get that?
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I try man hi if this is all going on at your house you need to tell your social worker/ councilor at school. They will have it investigated. If its not true then don't report it.
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So you are being abused because your mom didn't like that you had a slush?

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I would need more details to answer better but from what I can under stand she's definitely not abusing you. You had a slush, which i'm going to assume that's a kind of frozen drink, and then your siblings had a kind of drink as well. So if they didn't get a drink wouldn't that be a little unfair?

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All these people are actually abusing you, it's not a stupid question, your mom may be overreacting but is not abusing you.

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