How to put sparks back in a relationship ?
I've been with my bf for a little over 1 year. we have been through a bunch of fights. we came to where we almost gave up on our relationship. we had a 1 week break not so long ago and ended up missing each other a lot. things have been going well lately. we don't fight about little things anymore. but my bf doesn't want to sleep over with me. he said he has to go to work early in the morning, run errands and everything. sleeping with me makes him feel irresponsible and just want to stay in bed. i'm not working. i am currently a college student. i trust him that he's not seeing anyone else. he's a weird guy but very honest. Though i understand his reasons but before all the fightings and the break we used to kind of live together. he comes over and spend nights with me. now it's really hard to ask him to stay over for just 1 night. every time i try to ask him to stay over it's like giving him a hard time. i feel like the spark of our relationship has died down. i dont know how to make him passionate about us like he used to. i still am. i tried to talk to him and tell him how i feel but it felt just like I'm putting more tension to the relationship. I've heard that a lot of couples have to go through this phase too. how did or how would you deal with something like this ? help me !!