2 years ago
Last edited at 7:04PM on 10/27/2011
Ever heard the poem if you love something set it free. If it comes back to you it's yours if it doesn't it never really was. No matter how hard you try you can't make someone love you. But sometimes if they know you still love them they'll use you.
The best advice I know is to let them go. Get involved in life again. Sometimes they see what made them fall in love with you to begin with & they'll come back. Odd thing is when they do you often find you're not interested anymore :)
It's better to have a friend then to lose that all together. Don't get high hopes that he'll turn around just know if you love him then he's worth keeping in your life regardless of how he loves you back.
You will learn you dont 'need' anyone. Ive been there too thinking no way i could be without them, then i was and life was better without. Move on, a guy doesnt learn to love you, he will even when he shouldnt and you will know. Time to shop around.
If you love someone set them free. If they come back there yours. But if they don't come back then they were never yours and never will be. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Pretend you are the fisher and the people out there (female or male) are the fish. Take a chance and go for it. Let this person you love go and try to catch another different fish!
from experience don't waist your time. I'm sure you have much to offer but you should do it with someone who wants what you have. I was with my ex for 1 1/2 years and I finally realized even after many friends told me to break up with him b/c he didn't really love me...I ended the relationship. it took me just as long 1 1/2 years to get over my resentment I had towards the whole situation.
you can't count on them so it's better to leave them behind, their are many matches for you on this earth find the one's that are attracted to you, and you to them and that's how to build a healthy relationship.
It is hard to receive advise as we are blinded by our own feelings towards the person we love. the truth is when someone is into you it is as simple as that they are , they show interest they try they go out of their way to show you they love you. yep sometimes walking away the partner might open their eyes . real love is not a game ... real love you will find when you dont have to go looking for it . it will come to you just how you wear your heart on your sleeve and give that love , that compatible partner will find you one day. Send you my energy and hope you receive that special someone.