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What do I do about my sister?

My big sister's boyfriend is going to ruin her life but she's to blind in puppy love to see it, he's been taking prescription drugs from our mom's pharmacy and selling them, he makes her sneak out of the house. She doesn't want me to tell our parents because she knows that our dad wouldn't let her see him anymore, she makes me feel like a bad sister when I tell her that he's using her. he acts like a saint around our mom and dad saying yes sir and yes mam, I know he's afraid of my daddy most people are he's a 6'3 retired marine and he just talks in that military voice. I want to tell so bad but I don't know how, we eat as a family every night my sister has become as manipulative as he is, she talks like an angel in the company of adults but runs around after school buying pregnancy test and helping her boyfriend sneak pills from the pharmacy. I know sooner or later she's going to get caught my mom is catching on to the missing medication and my dad is asking me many times a day where my sister is, I don't lie to him because she doesn't tell anyone where she is. I don't want to attend my 17 year old sister's funeral how can I tell my parents?

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You def need to tell them. If she taking controlled substances from your mother's Pharmacy your mother can face not only hefty fines for the missing drugs but also she could lose her business and possibly her licence as a Pharmacist if she can't account for the missing medications O.o Tell your mom what is going on if she doesn't believe you tell her to do a count on her controls.

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I WAS gonna answer this, but you pretty much have it covered.....8)
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nitendo3ds

to much info O.o

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You are doing the WRONG thing by NOT telling. It isyour duty to inform your Mom and Dad about this. As deanna said, your Mom could LOSE her pharmacy over the theft. How would that make you feel, knowing that your Mom lost her job, and you have no way to make money to live on because " You were too scared to tell the truth"

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Tell them. Your sister will forgive you later i promise.

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You will probably find out that your sister is doing these drugs too. Usually people who do drugs hang around others who do drugs. Your Dad knows about this. Tell them.... NOW
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Tell your parents. She's under bad influence. She needs help.

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Damn. Break 'em up. Tell yo sista wassup, also, i think that you should really tell your parents about this. it's better for her to get in trouble then just keep it a secret, in the end she'll get hurt anyway. It'll ruin her life if you don't tell her, and later she'll realize what he was doing all along. she'll be glad you told your dad.

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definely Tell them but if she does convince you not to talk to your parents talk to the boyfriend tell him that it's either stop selling drugs or you're going to tell your parents if he really loves her then he will stop but if he doesn't tell your parents and your sister what he did and what you did about it and then she'll realize that he doesn't actually love her hopefully

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You need to inform your parents, like now! Your sis will thank you later, and your parents will thank you now. Your parents could get in trouble, and you and your sis could both get convicted for knowing about it and not reporting it.

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you defiantly need to tell them. Dont worry your sister will thank you once she relizes what could of happened to her. if you dont tell them your sister could get seriously hurt. defiantly tell them

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LexiPo

Your sister needs you to stand up. Right now she can't. Don't let her down.

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You need to tell your parents you might feel like your sister will be mad but it is the best thing for both you and your sister and hopefully her boyfriend because it will protect your sister and hopefully make you not worry about that and maybe her boyfriend will stop. But the best advice is to not let it go on anymore and to make the bond between you and your sister closer for both of you two. Hope you make the right choice and I hope this helps! :-)

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I agree..tell your mom...you don't want anything to happen to your sister or your mom... another way she could confirm your acquisition is review the video from the cameras in the pharmacy.

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You have to talk to your parents about it before it gets worse.

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I hope you don't want your sister to go to jail for aiding and abetting. there aren't too many crimes with stiffer penalties than drug charges. Your parents may also be arrested if there is reasonable suspicion of aiding criminal activity. Her boyfriend needs to be exposed.
Do it now. Or plan B is below...
Or call 1-888-CRIMETIPS. They are New York based but will help anyone on the planet. And; You will remain anonymous.
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