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I think my boyfriend may be going with me as well as other girls behind my back What to do ?! (READ DESCRIPTION FRIST)

Ok so me and my boyfriend hae been dating for a a while now. Ever since we got together we have been otp just talking about us and our relationship. He will tell emh he love meh several times while we are otp. And a belive him. I will ask him questions (not being insecure or anything) like does he talk to other girls will he cheat n meh you know stuff like that. He tells me that he doesn't talk to anybody but me. ( realashinship wise) AND again I belive him. But lately I have just been browsing around on his page (facebook) and I have seen that a few OTHER girls have been saying that he and them are together And I just want to believe that it's way back n not present. What to do besides confront him

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The first thing I have learned long ago, is NOT to ask a guy if he would "cheat" on you, or if he is talking to other girls. Very few, if any will actually say "sure babe, I cheat on occasion, and talk behind your back) If you are seeing this stuff, look at the date(s) of the remarks, and how he responds to it. Is it written on his page? If he isn't trying to hide it, chances are it's nothing. But, I will tell you this. If I have ever felt like I had to check up on a guy, go through his phone, check his social media sites, or anything else that would confirm what he is doing, I don't stay with him. If a guy wants to cheat (or even a girl for that matter) he/she will find a way, regardless what you ask, say or do, or how you check up. I might also correct you. If you have to ask if he is talking or seeing others, sweetie, believe it or not, that is a sign of insecurity. If you can't get past it, and you continue to do this to him, especially if he is innocent, that will drive him away. I know it would me. Trust is the basis of any good relationship......just a thought. Good Luck.

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thanks and this is the very first time i was just on my page n i kinda starting thinking of him so i went on his page then i came across this girl (that i don't know) and it was basically a collage of him and her saying they got together on 3-30-13 but the pic was just uploaded 23 hours ago i just found that a little curious but i'm not doing this on purpose i just want the truth no matter what but i appreciate the advice i hope all goes well
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CC : Maybe he has a set of shoe mirrors!
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the only thing you can do is ask about it. dont be shady and trying to play spy. just ask him but dont make it seem as if your accusing him otherwise he will get defensive and it will turn into a fight. just calmly approach him and ask him about it and tell him to be COMPLETELY honest. if you try to ask arou nd he will find out and get mad that you didnt ask instead. trust me i know what i am telling you

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