men cheat because they think they wont get caught and because they feel like they are getting away with something it is exciting for them it makes them feel like more of a man another notch in the headboard im sorry sweetheart that happened to you DO NOT PUT UP WITH IT IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN please dont dwell move on as hard as it is you WILL find someone who will respect and love you good guys are out there they may not be the most gorgeous thing you have ever seen maybe just average joe but most super fine guys have the worst personality and are conceded full of themselves find you a hard working country boy they are most often respectful loving thoughtful and considerate best wishes to you.
First off, stop. Life is hard for everyone, think more positively of yourself and don't sink to their level. If they where like that doesn't mean all are, open your eyes and try to get to know someone before you date them. Look into their eyes and truly see it they are sincere. The eyes reflect the soul and can not lie to those who look. Live your life to its fullest and find what makes you happy. All emotions good or bad reflect from the soul onto others around you.