Tricky question, how to stop niece from complaining about me and her other aunt to each of us about the rules she sets for her 5 month old?
I hear from my sister and she hears from me that we don't follow my niece's rules for her 5 month old. (putting her down for naps at certain times, feeding schedule etc.) In my experience at this age babies are on their own schedule. Also her mother (our other sister) has told her that she is lucky to have aunts who are babysitting for free (I am laid off) and that she can't micromanage when she is not there. She has also told her that we are doing a very good job and her baby is healthy and happy. (Niece is 21yrs old) Got pregnant from a 1 night stand of a boy she liked on purpose because brothers fieance was pregnant. Daddy will not have anything to do with her or the baby.