Need advice please! Been married 9.5 yrs but with my husband for 10. His work is taking over our lives and I have no idea what to do!
My husband works hours sometimes until 2, 3 or even 5 or 6AM during the week and weekends. Midnight has become a standard thing. No he isn't having an affair. I know this because when he's working after hours he's sitting in our living room. While he can come home we are stuck here all the time because of his job. His phone NEVER leaves his side and he's constantly checking it. I had to take him to the mountains on vacay where there was no reception just to get a break from his job. That's where the problem is. I've been on disability for a few years now so all the household responsibility falls on him. I've suggested home health and a maid he shot both down. Feels like I'm more than just a burden I feel like he resents marrying me. It's his actions and body language that says it. He use to be thoughtful, detail oriented, loving, caring and kind. Now he doesn't look at me anymore like he did when we first married even though he had that look for several years. How do I get him back when I'm disabled?