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If I'm a 19 year old male and my boyfriend is 40, is that okay?

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Legally, yes. Ethically, debatable. Personally, he's a creep.

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Lol
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Heeyyy, they erased your answer. . .
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Lol, I know. Guess they didn't want me agreeing with you.
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Lol, most people don't want that reputation anyway.
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Was a good answer.
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Is.
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Thanks:)
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Yes that's fine love has no age or gender:)

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Really? Wait till your little girl get into such a relationship
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She is already I can care less
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Great answer!
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Thanks wittie
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Your welcome Eureka.:-).
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Oh brother! Hillbillies....
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Yup have a graceful day wittie;)
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Are you two lovers?
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Oh brother!!!
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Oh and I'm going to give you a star witte for each answer:)
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O.K!! LoL!!
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Yup! You are
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Lol
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Tell mr Wayne I said hi^_^
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Sure will ...!:-).
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Wait!! That changes everything!! Oh wow! You know mr wayne!!!
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Mr. Wayne says thanks :)
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Cool, thinks this is fun also!:-).
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Yup sure does:)
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Just passed on a copy; will see if joins eventually.:-).
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Ok sure
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What the heck is this all about?
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You!
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What the hell did I do?
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You did the unthinkable you became the coolest cowboy ever lol
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Omg you said a swear word0-0
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"Love has no age or gender?" Says the pediphile to ask.com questions.
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Come on zombie, it was CLEARLY stated in the question that this person is 18!
Legal age!
Neither of us WOULD ever condone the actions of a
Pedophile!
If you have nothing nice or informative to say; say nothing at all.
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Far out, man!
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LMao!!! Goof!
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Lol zombie is a brony
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Oh boy... this comment just keeps ticking aye?
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I guess so
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Kinda looks that way!
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Yup sure does
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7777 : How are you doing? Did you lick the Yellow fever?
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Yellow fever? where'd you pick that up?
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Sure did I should of not bought that fish next time Sid buys it lol
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Isbroso I think your a wimp
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Sure. You guys are both over 18 so you are illegible adults now. Age has nothing to do with love. :)

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Now she never said a thing about being in love. She said "boyfriend", which in today's society could mean a multitude of things..
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um... "he". and i just assumed... :/
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Sh*t I apologize..
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no problem. :)
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That's a little....outrageous O_O

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depends.

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As in, you'll still be young and he'll be in them.
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It may be out of age, But it's ok. Besides, If you feel comfortable with being with him, then there's nothing to worry about!

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Um that's kind of disturbing an he's way too old for you it's like your dating your grandfather eww

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Tricky. Not a good move.

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Dude, I think that if your not at least 30 years old. He's more attracted to your youthful energy and over all appearance.kinda like an older man dating a considerably younger woman.
He's nearing the end of his journey, where yours has just begun.
It's like seeing a movie with someone who has already seen it ,there is no first time excitement . Just a lot of been there , done that.

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I used to date younger women , and then realized I was only stealing their youth.thats selfish.
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Age is just a number. I've known "old" 20 yr olds and my grandmother at 85 was younger than many teens.
I was dating guys 27-30 when I was 17 so I don't find it a big deal IF you guys are compatible

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It's weird but its legal.

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If you two are Happy and the age difference doesn't bother you, see no problem with it.

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Hi.. Witte... I'm just reading and "staring" you....I'm not feeling like talking... sorry... grapes :)
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Sweetest, is ok, I've sort of been same lately.
Is nice to know you are there!
Rainbows!:-).
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It's your world,we're just living in it.

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your old enough to know!

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yeah gay or not it's legal

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You are legal age but something is off with that guy. Creepy and perverted.

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it depends on you , if you two love each other and you have no obstacles when you talk with each other, that is ok, but, i worried that maybe, you just attracted by her mature temperament,and when you grow old, you will like girls in your age.

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ummmmm............. wat?

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your over 18 so it doesnt matter as long as ur happy its ok

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You are old enough to answer for yourself. But does he want to take you out someplace or just romance you in his home? If he is really interested in you as a person he will ask you about your life, your likes, your relationship with your family, etc. Or does he talk about himself all the time. If you want to have this relationship, just protect your heart, because it will probably be a temporary thing. Always use a condom. He is older and has been with other partners, so protect yourself.

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yes

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As long as you're both happy, treat each other like adults and don't hold each other back from the school and/or the career you want.... I can't see a problem.

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doesnt matter. love is love

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i think no matter what we write your gonna do what you want .id say if our questioning it you know it isnt feeling so right .go with your gut .

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Ohhh please darling! IF you love him there will be no problem. Except the fact that many people will criticize you especially your partner for dating a very young one like you. Gender doesn't matter. Let alone the age. Try to read that story in Wattpad (might sound silly but if you just like then try) here's the link it's about gay love, gender and age problem. http://www.wattpad.com/story/911320-playing-with-fire-boyxboy

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To me it sounds like you are looking for an adult in your life to share something that is in this life called "Different." However it is 2013 wouldn't you want to experience "LOVE" with somebody closer to you in age? He has been through it all. It is time for you to live "IN LOVE." Me being 50 makes me have to say.. "if you have to ask then Honey you are not "IN LOVE." Being "IN LOVE" is a part of life everybody in the world should have. When you get it, Hone, you will know and never let go no questions asked.

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