How can I try to stop caring about someone who's hurt me so much, but I love them?
It just takes time!
If they hurt you so much,it should be easy to not care about them.You must just enjoy an abusive relationship and that isn't healthy.
Avoid any contact whatsoever, and time.....you just need time, and probably a lot of it. : (
the thing is love is like a drug people know it hurts them but the doing it just move on felling will always be there but its natural to keep caring
focus on other things you enjoy
You shouldnt. You just gotta be careful in what you do for them. Pray to Jesus for guidance and wisdom. Gby