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How do I save my lesbian relationship?

So my girlfriend has been acting differently towards me. We usually hold hands, and she was locking her fingers together so she didn't have to. When I asked her what was wrong, she was still short, and said Nothing. So I was like, well, why didn't you let me hold your hand? She was like, Do we have to hold hands EVERYWHERE we go? She's just being a smart-Alec. Actually, I mean, I don't want to sound childish, but simply put she's just being mean. I don't know what to do, I'm trying to give her space but it's eating me alive! Just Tuesday she told me how excited she was to spend summer with me. Help?

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she might feel uncomfortable about something and you should talk to her about it and ask her whats wrong other then that i wouldn't worry seems like she still cares for you she just needs space or time to herself at times.

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She won't tell me what's wrong.
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I think you should just give her some time. For now, spend time with her as a friend. But she did say she couldn't wait to spend time in the summer, so it can't be that bad.Just give her a bit of space and talk a little bit. After a day or two, then you can see if she's still the same way. She is right about one thing: You don't have to hold hands everywhere you go.

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She doesn't have to be rude though.
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Ask her why she's being distant and tell her it's pushing you away

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She won't tell me. She said , "it doesn't matter,".
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Listen im a Bi this has happened to me before sit down and have a talk

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before you lose her
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The problem is we're both so busy for the next two weeks. I don't think our schedules will calm down until June.
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Oh no im so sorry honey i love you
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