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This girl I've liked since the beginning of high school.. (Please read description thing)

I've like this girl since the beginning of high school we're both freshmen.. She's a cheerleader for my school and she hangs with other cheerleaders and all of that. I used to have two classes with her.. now we only have one and we really don't talk as much as I want us too. She last talked to me Friday.. I am shy I guess so I am not really sure what to say to her.. we have a alright friendship.. don't talk a lot at all but hey.

She has a boyfriend I think for like 2 years? He's in 10th grade.. I REALLY like this girl.. I been thinking about her non stop since she talked to me Friday.. Any advice of what I should do? I know I SHOULD leave her alone since she has a boyfriend but I can't just stop liking her because she has a boyfriend.. O_o

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Just be her friend for now. What's meant to be will happen. Let her get to know you better. Start a conversation with her or something.

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Try getting into interesting conversations with her...Let her know that you have feelings for her.

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Hard to do without bringing up that I like her.
I have told my friends that I like her and there's been many times when she's almost found out. (Honestly I wish they would, so I could know if she has similar feelings instead of liking her for so long to make a move and she isn't interested..
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I think you should either get more comfortable with each other(Open up to each other) or have your "resources" to help you what you need to know about this girl..Which means if she has the same feelings toward you or not.
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I'm not much of a social person. I am more of a layed back person who doesn't talk much unless it's just me and someone else who I know or a good friend. I talk to my friends that I am really cool with.. but only seeing her for one period (which is a pretty big class, there's like 23 people in there so it's hard to really talk to her) it's pretty hard to really know her.. I used to have her in two classes but I got changed to that teacher another class period.

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Get a chance to talk to her...Don't let your social glitches interfere with getting to know her...If you want to talk to her you're going to be the one who must start. If not, who is going to begin conversation?
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Just try to be friends with her to get to know her when ever you have the chance talk to her just don't go to far to the point where she will feel uncomfortable. Try first to be her friend and maybe she will start feeling the same way you feel for her. Just don't flirt cause it might make her boyfriend mad. Try to text her or message her. Just don't tell her you like her because it might mest up your chances even more. When your mind and heart say its time to tell her tell her . But first try to talk to her in that only class you have with her

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I'd say that you should let her know that you will always be there for her, at least. So if things with her bf go south, she'll have you to confide in.
My English teacher once told me that he met his wife in college. And she already had a bf when they met. One night, he told us, that she and her boyfriend were starting to argue about something. And instead of saying something like "oh, I'm here for you, be with me," he drove her to her bf's house for them to "work it out," when in fact he would hope they would fight some more and break things off. which they did, and they're now together with 2 kids!
So all in all, just be her best friend. So she trusts you enough to be comfortable around you with anything!

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Erm.. she has other guy type friends (not boyfriends) so I'd be kinda hard to take their place.. if anything me and her could just talk quite a bit at school. I don't see me being as close to her as they are so.. :/
Letting her know I'll always be there for her would be kinda awkward because we are not that good of friends for me to say that to her..
Thanks for your comment though :)
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