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its time for them girls to start paying

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Both or one can pay this time. Then the other the next. Guys shouldn't have to pay all the time. >...<

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Hmm ok. :D
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No problem ^~^
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GIRLS SHOULD NEVER HAVE TO PAY! seriously what has this world become! God....
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Sorry how I view it.
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Doesn't matter

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Are you satanic?
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Athiest
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Why do you have an upside down cross then if your atheist?
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To bug people, lolol
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haha nice
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Michael292

the guy, it is typical because we want to be nice

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Split it

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Guy.

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Take turns.

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Ello. :)
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Do I know you?
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You two should make your dinner.

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whoever u r in the relationship. u deserve it 4 asking questions on ask.com

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i dont get ur answer.....
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guy but u cud offer to split it. me and my bf split sometimes,sometimes i pay for it,sometimes he does.... all depends on who asks who :)

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Whoever is richer. Sadly, I'm always the one paying. But have fun.

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Usually the guy I would think he , he.

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thats right liz...
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and good morning = }
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Hey there Hawk good morning how are you ?
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I guess I am old fashioned, if you ask someone out to dinner , the you must pay

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That's not old fashioned, and it seems like rather sound advice
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She's going to get the wrong impression if u make her pay.

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It should be split down the middle. You want equality between the sexes right? I do find it amusing when feminists say that and then get pissed when men stop treating them special. Equality mean no more chivalry.

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It's gentlemanly for the guy to pay. It's just impolite to have the girl pay.

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it doesnt matter! as long as u have fun and dont get into an argument. but the guy usually pays, but the girl can 2. nothing wrong with that, all good and ends well!

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Guy...

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I would say that the guy and the girl should both pay. I mean it is polite for the guy to pay but shouldn't the girl pay to u no to show that she cares?

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the guy but the girl should pay too but sometimes if the guy takes the girl out the guys pays if the girl takes him out the girl

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Whoever makes the date. So if the girl asks her boyfriend out for let's just say Tuesday night, she would pay. If the guy asked the girl out the following week, he would pay.

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Each pay for their own or the guy. NEVER THE GIRL!! It's just rude!!! I mean the girl can drinks for the both of them but NEVER a full meal!!

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guys or halfsies, never pay for a mans date it makes you look cheap

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the guy ALWAYS pays if he doesnt dump him......

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now a days it really doesn't matter who pays it can go either or both...

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see thats where your wrong you need to say to yourself i deserve the best and any good hearted guy would never let you pay......
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Yeah your right Hawkmann u said it a real man my husband always payed for me and my kids...but now a days I see the woman pain... just the other night me and my friends went out for lunch and on the other table was a couple and she end up pain for her and him I was shocked that's why I said that lol :)
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Either the guy, or they split the bill :)

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the guy has to pay if he does not want to be dumped..............................

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If you ask him on the date you pay, and vice versa, or splitting is the best option.

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It's usually the guy who pays. But I guess if it was the girl who asked him for the date, then she pays. But a well mannered boy/man would insist on buying. Or if it's the first date, and neither of them (you?) are sure, then you could split the bill.

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the guys should always

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first date: definitely the guy. from then on, it's watever the two agree on!

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JaktheRabbit

It's typically the guys job to pay (if he's a gentlemen (I always pay no matter what)). You could go Danish 60/50 (the extra ten is tip)

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most times its the guy that pays because they wanna show of with there money, but girls can pay to.

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its not showing off its about respecting her and treating a girl the way she should be treated...
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yea it is but its also a little showing off
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yes it is
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if its like guys that have alot of girl friends it is but if it is like a other guy then its to be polite
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the Guy!

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girls should start paying instead of guys

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The guy, if you want to be a gentleman. The girl, if she wants to. Both of you, if you want to meet in the middle (usually the best way to go).

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I think the guy should pay because it's called being a gentlemen.

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Stef1243

I think the guy does because he was the one that asked you out, am i right or am I wrong?

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whoever asked the other person out on a date

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Both should pay, but they git should pay on the first date......

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Guys!!

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Duhhhh the guy , especially if he invited you!

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