Hmm... what would I have wanted to do at that age..? Yeah, nuttin' good... You can get pizza & soda (common, I know!), or Chinese take-out, or if you have a grill, you can grill burgers, hot dogs, assorted chicken parts, veggie kabobs, corn on the cob, etc... Just about anything is good when it's grilled. Get a Carvel ice cream cake for dessert, those are awesome! Fun..? I have no clue what teenagers do for "fun" these days... well, anything fun their "allowed to do." You could make the sleepover a costume party, that'd be different. Have your daughter pick a theme if she wants, like "horror-type" costumes, or whatever she likes. Or, they could give each other make-overs -- do each others' make-up, hair & nails...and... I dunno, I think I'm too old for this question, ha! :)
Shouldnt you be asking her this? Shes what? 17 or 18? I bet she can tell you what she and her friends like. At her age why is her mommy planning her party anyhow? She should be doing this. Shes too old for you to be doing everything for her.
Do a costume party. I would allow boyfriends to a certain time as well because it's graduation and they would want to be with them. If it's another night, just girls, just have pajamas, pizza, soda, munchies, movies and music. Your a wonderful mom to do this! Enjoy!
A fun costume party with beautiful prom dresses even though is isn't prom at all and here's a really good tip of hint. NO GUYS AT ALL TO SPEND THE NIGHT! Unless you're wanting to be a grandmother already and not saying your daughter is like the type not to listen, but there's always a possibility that it could happen along with whatever else. And hope she and all her friends have one hell of a time....