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Can a girl who is 11 yrs old date a 15 yrs old boy?

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No. When you are older, as in an adult, a four year difference means nothing. But, as a girl who has an 11 year old sister, I would never ever allow her to do that. 15 year old boys are extremely immature, and so are 11 year olds.

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askingrandomly
well i am just hurt. hurt and sad by your opinion.*runs off to corner of room to cry....
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Thanks my little sister likes this boy and he's 15
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Also, as the daughter of a police officer, I would know that an eleven year old going out with a 15 year old is ILLEGAL.
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askingrandomly
actually that is not a law. i am also a son of a police officer and as long as its consentual it isnt illegal. whas it something that he told you or did you actrually see is writen down in a legal form.
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My mother said the age of culpability is thirteen, therefore, an eleven year is unable (BY LAW) to content.
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askingrandomly
yeah, and my mom made me belive in santa claus
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lol
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If they want to

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Yeah but I think its a bad idea

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I don't see why not if it's okay with your mom and dad.

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naaah its gonna look bad for the dude. but if u want to u can

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What would a child do on a date? Come on baby. go play with your dolls and wait a few years to grow up.

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not a good idea

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No, becky bad idea

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Sugar you not even a teenager yet , at 11 years old that's a little young !

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there is not a huge age difference, my friends sister started dating her boyfriend when she was 11, he was 17. ... she is now 23 and married to him. they got married a couple of years ago.

if your relationship is successful, its not gunna matter when you're 20 anyway.

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Yeah, but more often than not the relationship isn't one that you'd want to have, if you what I mean!

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i think so but there might be limiets to some things

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Thats just a sad and stupid idea.

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I think is fine, what they want is a close friendship it is not anything about love. We precieved the significant of LOVE when we are somewhat 17-18 years old. As long as they are under parent supervision, so they didn't do anything beyond.

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i would be ok with that if i was that girl but they should only date is they arent gonna break up right away they have to last

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Not a good idea because the 15 year old is in the middle of puberty and the 11 year old isn't..

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Yeah, I think both people should have already gone through puberty before they start dating anyone. If they haven't then, they aren't old enough to date maturely.
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First of all I don't think an eleven year old should be dating period. Especially a girl, they arent ready for a relationship at such a young age. I'm 15 and still not dating for another year at least. Although the difference in age once you get a bit older is just fine.

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When I was eleven I had a crush on a guy two years older then me, actually I still do. Anyway, I thought I 'loved' him, but you have to be careful with your emotions. A younger person might not know exactly what it's like to date. And he may have high expectations for you.
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I don't think its a good idea

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yeah

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no!!!!!!!!!

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No,let me guess...you're the 11 year old? Go play with dolls!

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um i dont think thats a good idea because 15 year olds dont take thing seriously

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No! this is a really bad idea. No 15 year old would seriously want to date an 11 year old. this is asking for trouble. anyways the partner defiantly will have other interests in this relationship (sorry if this is gross but, SEX) No 11 year old should EVER date a 15 year old.

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Age doesn't matter, You live only ones. I am dating a guy whom is 3 years older than me. And my mom wanted me to date a guy 4 years older than me. so she said to me age doesn't matter u only have one live, but don't just throw around with your body. you have to be able to say NO. But at this age don't have sex yet you're just to small. But don't listen to TaylorJ12354 said "anyways the partner defiantly will have other interests in this relationship (sorry if this is gross but, SEX)" i am friends with 15 year old people, they are weird but they don't want to have SEX maybe they will think about it but they won't do it. I know this cuz im dating a 15 year old guy. And all those guy have respect for you. I love my boyfriend and i know he loves me too

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Does a girl that is 11 even know how to HANDLE a relationship? And I don't know many 15 year old guys that would be willing to date an 11 year old, they usually aren't attracted or interesting in that..

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It's possible but I honestly don't recomend it.

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my grandparents are 14 years apart in age however 11 year olds shouldn't be dating

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That ain't dating that's baby sitting

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11-year-olds should not be dating at all, especially not high school guys. But it's totally fine to have a crush on him, just make sure you don't act upon it.

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Too much maturity/age difference not a good idea. Plus the 11 year old is too young to be dating anyway

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You can do this, but keep it.

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