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I like a guy who's 9 years older then me I am 13 , I want to tell him I like him and I will but how do I tell him? HELP!

I know you all say no but I'm going to tell him and I don't know how please tell me and after I will leave him alone

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Stay away from him...Okay?

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22 years old?
Hold your breath. That's an adult you like.
Unless he's a [p e d o], he won't consider dating somebody that young.

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Enjoy your crush but leave him alone. You are too young for a 22 year-old man and will cause nothing but trouble for him. If he is still available when you are 18 (an adult), then you can pursue a relationship. Again, if you care about him, LEAVE HIM ALONE.

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You are infatuated with him and that's normal but I think if you actually told him it would be pretty risky. Just because he's 21 doesn't mean he's mature. If he's not mature he may embarrass you by laughing. And I'm sure that would hurt your feelings. I'm sure he is interested in girls that are much, much closer to his age. And that's just what you should be doing. Hang out with kids in your age group ;)

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22, learn math
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Feel better ? Good
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His to big for you don't say nothing to him

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I would stick to people around your age cx

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That's illegal just letting you know...

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There is nothing illegal about liking someone. Why jump to conclusions?
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first of all.... ew.... anyways.... just tell him strait out... he might say something like "aw how cute" but ya know....

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thank you
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In my opinion he is WAY to old for you!!! You are a teenager!! Go for someone your age!!!

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Their is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you telling him how you feel. Their is everything wrong with allowing him to touch you.
When I was about 22 years old. I had several underage girls try to convince me that I was the "man for them". I explained to them that if that was the case, I would see them when they older... and was pretty sure that they would NOT feel that same way. I win, I was right. They liked me and respected me.... but they didnt feel the same way as they did when they were younger. They also thanked me for not doing anything with them. I didnt bother to tell them that jail did not look like a good place for me to be..... but I think they knew that.

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uhh... the only guy you should like that is 9 years older than you is a celebrity crush.

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What are you dating enyone now?

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no
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oh well im 17
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I'm not gonna date u I don't know u
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i now that im not askin you out just being friends
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Uhm .. He is way to old for you ! If he dates you & someone tells it doesnt matter what he did or didnt to you , he would go to jail .. & he is considerd a pedophile ..

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im just going to be straight forward here. if they are 9 years older than you and you guys arent elderly than its weird and they probably think of you as just a kid. oh and btw its illegal if anything happens and its kind of wierd your parents and friends probably wont approve and id rather keep all those relationships good than wreck them for one that will absolutely fail. u will never marry this person it is just a crush maybe when you guys are in your 20s or 30s u can worry about that

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Don't!

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no

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yeah my grandparents are 14 years apart in age

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um be a good girl and run the other direction.

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