Wait! Let him make the first move. Guys need to be taught to respect girls... you control that. But, you can do simple things to help him let down his guard & enable him... a lingering touch on his forearm always works. Making the first move sets the tone. If you want him to respect you at all, let him wait & gain respect for you in the process :-) Promise, don't rush it. You'll be happier if you don't.