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I stayed at my best friends house and her brother and I kissed when everyone was sleeping. Is it best she knows or keep it a secret?

my friend is really judgmental

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Yikes. That sucks. But she is your best friend and might be super upset if she found out another way than you. Plus you never know, she might find it funny or support it. Or she might be mad and disappointed, but those feeling might pass and she might find it funny in the future.

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I didn't have to tell, he didn't only tell his sister, he called a family meeting and admitted his feelings he's had for me and that he wants to be with me, now we're dating but have a very strict set of rules, but my best friend approves which is a nice surprise.
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Wow! You sound lucky. It would be hard to find somebody like that. Good luck!
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you should tell her because she is your best friend

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It's not the end of the world. You kissed. There are worse things that could have happened. Just let it go.

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It is best that you let her know so as to avoid feeling guilty when around her. Despite her being judgmental, it is brave for you to let her know the truth and you can apologize to her for it.

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