Would you want to meet your dad after him wanting nothing to do with you for 21 years?
Okay, so there are two possible guys who may be my father. But neither wanted anything to do with me until after I was 18. I want to get a Dna test but at the same time I dont because I am grown now and paying my own bills. Where were they when I needed a place to stay? By no means would I have wanted the money. or even tried to get it, but now I think its to late to try to be apart of my life. But the other part of me wants to know my father. Please help if you have been in the situation or if you are.