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My best friend is different now, she's not acting like herself anymore!

my bestfriend Hannah is not acting like herself, she's smoking, drinking, and doing bad stuff and saying that I should lay off of her cause I'm such a goody goody, and I'm apparently not a good friend! but we have been friends every since we were born and she didn't act like that or didn't like me then! What should I do?

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Well then.. Looks like your friend has taken a turn for the worst. Unfortunately, people tend to change if they hangout with certain people. Sounds exactly like what happened to your 'friend.' My advice, leave her be. She obviously doesn't know what real friends are. Go out and find someone that's worth your time. One day it'll come to her that she made a mistake.

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Couldn't have said it any better! Stars for you! :) ^_^
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Haha thank you! :)
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Maybe friendship is changing and not going to continue....

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If my BROTHER were to do that I would just plain quit talking to him. I'm truly sorry but you can't do anything to help or change her; just avoid her. Otherwise she'll just rub off on you.

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You have a tough situation here ..... for me, i think its hard to come up with a way to change your friend concept and behavior. Words is not enough, you could hardly change her with only words and philosophy ...... If you still care and want your friend to be better. The good way for your friend is to suffer. Let her suffer by the life style she chose, let her see the consequences, the future that is waiting for her, let her see the people that close to her, like you, affected by her decisions ! She need to be afraid. She need a vision, a vision of her life after making any decisions !...... As a friend, the good thing you can do now is keep her away from bad environment. Your friend is affected by unwise people around her !

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My idea would be to just let her be because if you try to tell her not to do what she is doing, I know that your trying to be a very good friend. But Maybe just pray for her that's all I can tell you, she maybe going on a different path which I know from experience. You can't change her all you can do is pray that she will one day change. Just remember you always have god with you. he will help you through this with your friend. I will be praying for your friend for you. you can always talk to me if you would like.

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your friend is probably changing and maturing. give it another month or a week it should get better

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Look for a new best friend. She is heading down a dark and dangerous alley. It's better to be a goody goody.

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Awe hunny im so sorry too hear about that, but I think you need a new bestfriend. She's heading down a road you dont wanna be around. Try to get her away from the bad influences and put postive peer pressure on her. Mabey she'll relize whats shes doing and just stop. If you need anyone im hear for you.(:

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