I bought a plaque at a festival years ago and have it hanging on the wall in my entry way. "One night I prayed to God, I asked could he please remove my enemies from my life, and before you knew it I started losing friends." In my opinion, you can't trust another human being with ALL your secrets. Man betrays by nature. Tell it to your dog, he will never betray you. I tell my Pom everything, and its never gotten out.