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Why are guys scared to say "I Love You" ?

i've said i love you so many times but its like he'll say i know or cool wth does this mean??????? HELP!!!

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Because most guys are afraid of being with the same girl for the rest of their life. Especially if they're really young and don't quite understand what real love is. They like to keep their options open and don't want to make a girl feel like there's something "special" when in reality the guy probably doesn' feel that way yet. It's a guy thing. I normally avoid relationships altogether.

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Why wouldnt you want to be happy with someone? Its amazing knowning how much someone loves you but even more amazing when they show it.(:
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I would, but just about every girl I try to get with is a backstabbing, lying, manipulative, catty... I'll just stop there. Anywho, I don't seem to attract the ones that actually amount to anything.
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Great answer!
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Awe well im sorry hun, but the right persone with come along some day, hour,minute, month, year, or second you never know what fait has in store for you always no matter what keep your head up! Never let some "catty" put you down.(:
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That's called not being in love. Anyone would be afraid of being with someone they didn't love all their life.
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Oh, I don't let anyone get me down. I simply ignore them. Greatest tactic ever. (And thank you Tony)
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Well thats good too! Your doing the right thing by doing that! Im happy that you can do that because some peopel cant! Good for you hun!!.(:
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You're so optimistic and happy xD it's contagious.
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Well thank you my dear!!!!!!!.(: And i know alot of people tell me this. xD
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weel what yu said is very smart darlin its very hard for a guy to say that because i guess some guys are incable of it lol idk but thats what i think from exprence yu know
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It wasn't hard for me to say it, really. It's just the truth. I call it like I see it. And yes- experience is the best teacher; believe me when I say I've learned plenty.
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Exactly!!!. (:
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The same reason everyone is afraid of death. Because we do not know what lies beyond.

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He either does love you and is afraid to say it. Or he doesn't love you and doesn't want to lie to you.

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helixaqua

It's not manly!! Sorry, but I rarely say it...but she knows I do.

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When is "she" gonna get an Ask account???
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helixaqua
She doesnt like it!
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Yeah same with Mrs.737, I set her up with an account and she almost never even looks at it ... pppfffttt women!
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helixaqua
The woman rather watch reality TV :O
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tattoogirl
Reality tv sucks!!
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helixaqua
Yup!!!
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He's trying to be smooth like Han Solo right before he was frozen.

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Now thats smooth
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HeII yeah it was! ...

"I love you!"

"I know."

Good job, Han!
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Han is OUR leader!
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Bow down to Han!
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Mabey because you say it to soon!? Your bragging about how many times you've said "I love you"? That's really not a word you throw out there you have to mean it! Mabey because they arent ready for all of the things you are.

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i dont say its all the time but when i do choose the time to say ity i mean it!!!!!!
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don't worry too much. I love you in guy language is the ultimate form of endearment. If he doesn't say it, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you, it just means that he is not ready to say it. Give him time. However, do be on your toes if you two have been together for more than 3 years and he doesn't seem to be getting there.

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When we do, you girls always respond with those two complimentary words "Me too!" Ahhh, how romantic!

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Thats the thing i don't, if anything i say "cool or thats nice to know"
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Maybe the guy thinks once he's said it he has to be comited to you forever. Sometimes he may feel he's going to say it to you when it's the right time. He wants to know for sure that you're the one. How would like to find out if every girl he's been with he's said that he's loved them or was madly in love with them? Maybe he's waiting for that special time and I'm sure he'll say it to you then. Don't get to antsy about it. It doesn't mean he doesn't like being with you or doesn't mean he doesn't care

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It means he either doesn't love you yet or he just doesn't want to be committed to you in that way. It may be his way of not moving in the relationship too fast also

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I'm not scared to say it. And I'm a guy.

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It opens up a weakness, and then it usally turns into disaster

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Girls will then stay with them cause of it and they think they have to be with each other for a long time

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Define "love"

Women are generally emotionally driven.

Men aren't

We fear what we don't understand.

The MAJORITY of guys under 21 who say "I love you" to a girl are just trying to have good sex.

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Very True Thanks :)
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your welcome
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I ain't scared to say it! I love you. Hell, I love all of you!

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lolz i love you too! :)
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Aww, luv u too!
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We are not scared! if we love you we will tell u and if we don't we wont !

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well girl's say it too early now'en days. so it's like two weeks of dating then all of a sudden "hay i love you" and im like "who i dont know you that well to say those words or to hear them...yup." so yeah.

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but i waited for 4 months was that still too early??
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well i don't think it was but good job.
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thanks :)
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yup.
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For real, Its like ten months before you say it.8)

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