If he really loves you hell come to you and wont wait for you to come to him. Decide for youself and dont let him rule what you do or anything like that cause no guy is worth the heartbreak! Belive me hun i know. If he doesnt come back to you then youll know that he wasnt the one for you!.(:
Well, lets see.... I found out that breaking up with my gf was very hard to do and I did everything I could to get her back and she took me back but we had to break up because her parents don't like it.
I think a good general rule is he respects you, you get along with him, and you still trust him. Even with all that, there has to be a change with the people or situation as to why it might work the second time around.
I really dislike the whole if he comes back to you answers. As a guy, you're suppose to respect a woman's decision to break up. The idea that the guy is suppose try to win her back seems like the guy is unable to respect that she can make decisions for herself. I feel this type of thinking promotes stalking type behavior.