Marriage. Some people may think that's crazy, but dude, it will be so worth it! I mean, you might think you're gonna be with this guy forever, but anything can happen. At least when you're married, you both make a huge commitment to stay together no matter what. Do you really wanna give your virginity to a guy that possibly won't even be in your life forever?
I honestly think when you are mature enough to by condoms on your own like an adult and take sex seriously , sex is not a game it is a serious thing . also just think if you got pregnant by chance . . would you want him to be the father of your child ? so many things to think of before you decide .
When you can handle the responsibility and are consenting adults, sex is both emotionally and physically complex and there are severe consequences to it that aren't worth taking on until the right time.
I am waiting until marriage. Hopefully you do as well. Just imagine how much more enjoyable it would be to connect with the guy that you are going to spend the rest of your life with. It would be so special. It should be only done when married because it is serious. If by chance you got pregnant than at least the father will be in your life forever. Please think about this. What are his plans? Had he had sex before? Did you talk about this as a couple?
Marriage. Because its someone you love and you know they won't leave you. You know they won't judge you because they love you. I did a mistake but I honestly wish I waited. Now I'm waiting because no one should have that unless you're married. I've had so many regrets in my life. Theirs time I thought I was pregnant and the guy told me to abort. This is why also. If you're married and end up getting pregnant it won't be a huge deal. Just wait till married. It'll be such a good gift to your husband.
i dont think its age that matters i think its how long you've been together. like people think if you have sex at a young age your a disgrace but as long as you love the person even if they arent going to be in your love life forever. but if your ready and really love him not just think you do then go for it, but please be safe.
It's a question of maturity, not age. I think waiting for marriage is silly, but you should wait until you are ready to deal with whatever consequences there may be, until you are ready to support a child because no method of birth control is one hundred percent effective.
I think no younger then 16. If you're 16, 6 months- a year into the relationship. I waited til I was 18 and did it 3 months into the relationship. Just whenever you both decide is the right time. Make sure its the right guy and always use protection!
I dont think what age is the question to be asking it depends on yourself as a person, whether or not you feel comfortable enough to do it with the person you are with, and how long you have been together for. no one can really tell you when you can and cant add sex to a relationship.
something i found very helpful was this "as a couple, if you aren't comfortable enough to talk about it, you arent ready to do it" :)