It all depends on what you're looking for. In my opinion going to a bar to look for a girl ( if you are looking for something long term ) is not the best idea. Go out and find someone who enjoys the same things you do and also same beliefs as you do. I am speaking from a lot of experience on this one. Sometimes love is something that just happens to you.
You will know when you find the right girlfriend for you. God is always looking to find someone for us that we want to spend the rest of your life with. Just date girls and get to know them ~Elizabeth & Brian Forever
You, yourself, first has to be a good person. If you do not treat people right or whatever then a good girl would not want to be with you. You also have to have what she is looking for. (depending on your age) house, car, job, no debt, good family, etc. Just keep dating people until you find the right one. NEVER SETTLE!!!