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How can I get a boyfriend?

I'm 13 and all my friends have one so...

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JaktheRabbit

I would recommend waiting until you feel truly ready or around 16 (highly recommended). When that happens you can wait for the guy to ask you out or you could ask him out (I'm a guy and I see nothing wrong with that (although I would ask the girl first (depends on patience level))).
P.S. Confidence and personality aren't major turn offs and not all guys want sex out of a girl trust me on that. There are guys like me who would much rather wait on marriage and then think about having sex and wouldn't dream of pressuring a girl into having sex... that's just wrong and anyone who does that is a sadistic ego-maniacal creep with no considerations for others.

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You should have a boyfriend when your around 16 years of age and when your parents are ok with it.

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I agree. Have a boyfriend when your 16 or whatever. And just because your friends have one, don't not mean u need one.

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Find a guy you like and ask him out

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All you need is an I phone and tweeter or Instagram or better yet. FB lol

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Oh gosh! Seriously at 13 you are not ready to have a relationship. A relationship is built on mutual trust, responsibility, and kindness. Just because your friends have one does not mean you are in any way ready to have that privilege. Instead, work on making friends, boy or girl, and try to foster appropriate, strong relationships. Remember, never try to have something just because somebody has it.

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Does no one know what dating really is about? Dating is when you're trying to find the one person whom you want to spend the rest of your life with. Don't date until you have found that person.

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Dating is fine . I'm 13 I've been in at least 5 relaationships ( never did anything had ) just be comfortable . You don't need a boyfriend because your friends have one . I'm single and I love it enjoy it . Your single and can F-L-I-R-T.

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if your 13 dont date a 16 year old bad advice because 16 year old boys, along with like all boys, want one thing: sex. and you dont want to be pressured into that especially at such a young age. but you dont need a boyfriend so dont worry on it and dont look desperate if you are truly set on getting a boyfriend. desperation is a major turn off and confidence and personality are two major turn ons. and if a boy doesnt like you for you then they are a waste of your time

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You don't just get love it happens naterally

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its when you feel like your ready and you really like the guy and get butterflies in your stomic when your around him

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wait until you like someone and don't want to be with him because your friends have a boyfriend and then just get close learn things about him and be yourself around him when you're comfortable tell him how you fell hopefully he will feel the same way

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Heyy.. im the same age as you and to be honest, i used to feel the same way. But really, i promise you, you do not need to worry about dating yet. I get it, all of us are curious and we want to experience the kind of attention that "only a bf can give us" but for now, just be a kid. were young. and wild. and free. :D I actually had a pretty serious relationship a few months ago and i still cant get over the boy. its not worth it. guys mature much slower than girls (no offense guys) but its true, and at this age, no guy is going to want to get truly serious. they just don't get it. Anyways, whats really the point of dating? Dating is supposed to exist, so that people can find potential spouses for the future. Are you planning on getting married any time soon? lolol. im kidding, but if you still really want a bf, i would suggest maybe try flirting with him. make fun of him (but not too much) also break the touch barrier. hug him or poke him on the shoulders. lol and also, compliment his new shirt or cool shoes. believe it or not, guys like to be complimented just as much as girls :D lol hope i helped!! baii

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