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A few weeks ago, I was helping my ex, whom I still liked, hook up with this girl that happens to be my friend! After she told me that she hated him, I felt bad for him so I invited him over to hang out with me at my house! later that night, he texted me saying that he loved me! I didn't know what to do so I told him I didn't feel the same way (even though I did). Last week, I confessed that I loved him a lot and he told me he didn't want to date me because he didn't want to hurt me again! So, I invited him over again thinking I could change his mind! While we were hanging out, he got a call from the girl he called annoying the day before and they talked for a little bit (on speaker) and at the end, he told her he loved her! I told him to leave so I could cry in my bathroom! Anyways, I still Love Him! What do I do?

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Loulou, it sounds to me like this guy is a MAJOR player. Seems like he is "running through all these girls" so he has something to shove in your face. He's a complete jerk.
Please stop seeing him. Don't call him, don't text him, don't answer his calls/texts. I realize you think you love him, but he doesn't love you. Stop wasting your time "loving someone" who doesn't feel the same way for you.
Put your energy into someone else. Yourself. Take care of you, and the boys WILL fall into place. While your ex is still hung up on making you feel like crap, you'll be happy, over him, and in some other guys arms.

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Thank you! :) That really helped!
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You're welcome sweetie, good luck to you. Keep that beautiful head held high and don't let ANYONE bring you down!
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Ignore that jerk! He doesn't deserve your tears! You should just move on and forget about him he is in the past and you are in the present. Ignore him.

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It's time to move on and get rid of the feelings you have for him. Telling a girl on a speaker that he loves her is a clear sign that he just wants to play with your feelings. Furthermore, he clearly told you that he doesn't want to hurt you again. He is not serious with you so it's better to forget about him.

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Dont think about him. He is a real loser for doing that. Instead of feeling sad and crying. Do your hair, change the color, and get your nails done.You will feel better after that. if he sees you again dont even glance at him. jus keep walking.Thats when the tables turn because he will look at you and think WOW. but dont give him the time of day. You will now have to upper hand and you will look good doing it.

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Boys come, boys go, but this one just seems to desperate for a GF. OUCH! I bet the girls will find out who he actually is, or you could tell the poor girl when "he" is not around. This just concludes that BOYS ARE DOGS! LOL! Well, most of 'em. Just observe the guys to see just how much they elate like a dog. LOL! (There is a book called Boys Are Dogs. It is REALLY good. There is another one called Girls Acting Catty) I have never actually dated before (I very sympathetic) but this is my best advice I can give.
I hope this ya!

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