Submit a question to our community and get an answer from real people.
Submit

How to make the correct choice ?

I have a crush on a person at my class. He talks with me but not so frequently .. We are both in 9th grade. I have a little hobby of cooking . Though i am not so expert in it , its still a hobby. Last week was his birthday. After he came from his martial art classes , i gifted him the cake. For the first time I seen a strange reaction on his face. He took the cake in front of me and told me he liked it. But after I turned back , I seen him laughing with his class mates over the cake. He didnt know that I was watching . I was deeply hurted and went emotional after this behaviour. What does it mean ?
Should I proceed with this person or not ?

Report as

I don't know enough about him to tell you whether or not to proceed. I can tell you that guys act different when they're around other guys, I'm not saying that it's right, it's just a fact. I wouldn't stress too much over that one incident, it was a very sweet thing that you did. It could be that he was a little embarrassed and didn't know how to act.

Helpful (2) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (2)
Report as
What's to be embarrassed about taking some gift from someone ? I never get embarrassed if anyone gives me a gift
Report as
It's a little different for guys, that don't make it right. Guys have the whole "macho" image that they feel that they have to maintain.
Report as
Add a comment...

You should be patient and get to know him first. It could be that he is not even interested in you at all. Just try and be good friends first and then you will get a clue on what to do.

Helpful Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

talk with him & if you don't like his response, ignore him at all costs

Helpful Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

he probably doesn't like pda

Helpful Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

send him a note and tell him that you like him. thats what my girlfriend did to me

Helpful Fun Thanks for voting Comments (2)
Report as
If he is not interested , he will make fun of it again
Report as
exactly you are rite... he will again make fun of you... then you should take aside and wait for his response... if the response will be positive then continue your love... if he doesnt care abt you... then you shouldnt have to value him anymore...
Report as
Add a comment...

A couple things to consider: He may have actually appreciated it but felt awkward about it, thus playing it off by joking. Also, he may have been laughing about something completely different. Either way, maybe be more private about a gift like that next time, rather than possibly embarassing him in public.

Helpful Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...
Do you have an answer?
Answer this question...
Did you mean?
Login or Join the Community to answer
Popular Searches