If you like someone who's about to be related to you or become an in-law, you'll need to work at getting rid of any intimate feelings you may have. You can even become best friends once you accept the nature of your relationship.
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Last edited at 10:11PM on 5/25/2013
Discuss these feelings with your current relative (the one who is about to marry your crush). This way, there will be no secrets to bring you and others more problems than you already have from your unresolved issues. I can't see how "becoming best friends" with your desired soon-to-be relative by marriage is anything but a bad idea either. The intimate nature of close friends most frequently compounds feelings of attraction that already exist. Put it all on the table before the wedding or whatever it is that's soon to happen in order to avoid emotional turmoil afterward. Otherwise, , chaos awaits!