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Why do i want my boyfriend to make me jealous?

Its exciting when I get jealous about my bf.. but he just doesn't get me jealous,and i feel like i dont have to lift a finger to keep him. its a torture.. i want to feel like there's a million girls fighting for a chance and im the one he choose but its not like that at all,,he doesn't go out or play around with me to make me a little jealous. what do i do? this is ruining my connection with him. :(

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Think about it this way: he loves you so much, he won't pay attention to other girls.

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Break up with him and do the poor guy a favor.

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Why do you need him to be jealous? Most girls would kill to have a relationship in which their man is so unwaveringly trustworthy. Be appreciative of who he is.

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Aha one day you will grow up and realize you don't want women chasing after your man.

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It's a million years of evolution, since the caveman days females have had to compete for a male. Next time you're out with him point to a pretty girl and say "I bet you think she's cute." The Beautiful Mrs.737 and I play this game all the time. We can do this because we're secure in our relationship.

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I must hear about this game explain ?
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We just point out good looking people to each other and answer honestly "Yeah, she's hot" or "He's ok but not my type," that sorta thing.
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You want to prove to him that you love him , or you just like to fight and make up !

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A little bit of both.. but more of the last part.
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sounds like you are more worried about what other people think and are insecure and don't trust your judgement. if you need other women chasing your man to validate how much you care then you need to leave him, he needs a real women who loves him for him

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mplsstreetrwy

'Cuz you're immature!

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I appreciate all of your opinions.. to be truthful i do not want him to chase girls nor asking him to cheat on me, i was only hoping that once in a while he can at least crack a joke to make me give him the side way stare because that's how i like things.. i dont want to be misunderstood here.. im only looking for that side of him that i never saw. and i know you'll think it's better to never see it but its because im confident nothing between us will change that I am wondering... im not ungrateful for the way he loves me nor am I trying to change him.. Jealousy spice up a relationship, you actually need it sometimes because life shows you one more time of what you have and can?t ever lose!! Girls that are praying that their man stops cheating shouldn?t be with the dude in the first place.. Jealousy comes in many forms.. I was suggesting a jealousy of words not actions!
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nextmrsmalik

No offense, but I think this is plain out stupid. I'm sorry, but it's true. Do you like.. Want a chase ? Do you want to have to fight over him. You should be happy he doesn't check out other girls.

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Good.. now i know i'm really not thinking straight.!! thanks for answering!!
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nextmrsmalik
Ya I'm sorry,if I said it a bit too mean. And your welcome.
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Cause your a fighter

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