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Some girl and her friends are driving me crazy.

I go for a walk every day. But lately this girl and her friends keep following me, asking me if I want to "Hang out" and trying to get me to talk. She says shes trying to make me "social" and I told them that I want them to stop but they just keep doing it. One of her friends which talks WAY to much told me that she is "not really trying to make me social" and that shes "Very inappropriate". And that's it. I don't go to public school and I'm not on any social websites. What should i do? We are both 15.

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They either like you, are messing with you, or both. If you have any interest in any of them, hang out a little and see where it goes. It won't kill ya. But, if you still are convinced that having MORE THAN ONE girl interested in hanging out with you is a problem, just continue to be unsociable until they give up. As for the "inappropriate" part, need more deets. What, exactly, has she said or done that has been inappropriate? Have you personally witnessed any inappropriate behavior? Or is it so far just hearsay? If the latter, I wouldn't pay it much mind. Gregarious teenage girls are not exactly known for their aversion to hyperbole and rumor-spreading.

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I have not witnessed any inappropriate behavior, I really was not bothered by them until she claimed to have found out where I live by spying on me through a window! Plus, the same person who said "Shes very inappropriate" told me the exact location of my moms bedroom! And I KNOW her window is never open! I cant see anyway he could have known where my moms bedroom is unless he was in are house!
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How could he have known?
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Uh....yeah, that's a little beyond inappropriate. I would say that qualifies as stalking. OK, getting a much clearer picture now. Yeah, you don't want anything to do with this crowd. I would make it clear to them that you are not interested in hanging out, and that if they don't leave you alone you will involve the authorities. I would also talk to a friend or relative in law enforcement about what else you can do to protect yourself and your family. If you don't know any cops or lawyers, walk into a police station or law office and talk to one. Change your locks! And find out everything you can about these people. Do they have rap sheets? Do they have histories of mental illness? Have they ever been locked up? Where do THEY live? You want to know as much as possible to get an idea of just how far they could go. I also wouldn't rule out the likelihood of a restraining order being necessary. But give them a chance to leave you alone after you have made it clear you want nothing to do with them. BE TACTFUL! Don't be rash or insulting, but be very firm and clear. They have to know you are serious without feeling insulted. Don't say anything like "If you f@$#ing psychos don't leave me the hell alone I'm going to call the cops!" Rather, more along the lines of "Thank you for your concern about my social life, but I am not interested in hanging out. Please stop bothering me, or I will have to involve the authorities." If they press further, explain that you don't feel comfortable with them knowing details about your house's floor plan, and you that you don't appreciate being spied upon. If they don't take the rejection well, or say or do anything weird, cryptic, or creepy, I'd get that restraining order pronto. Best of luck to you!
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maybe try taking a different walking route, avoid them? girls are very persistent so they probably wont stop for some time... if you dont want to change your walking route, just ignore them completely. girls LOVE the attention. even if its negative ( when youre being annoyed by them ) pretend that it doesnt bother you and eventually they'll stop.

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You need to make it clear to them that you do not need their company. You can also inform them that if they continue, you will report them for harassment. You should just ignore them anytime you see or meet them along the way.

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I have made it very clear to them.
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Try being friendly. Kill 'em with kindness.

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