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I think im falling in love with my ex what do I do?

We broke up but recently started talking again and are close friends ( like best friends ) the only problem is now that I am getting to know him better I am falling for him

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australis

Each relationship is different and the hardest thing about a past relationship is to decide if it's worth giving it another chance.However,if you feel that that your past problems have been resolved and you are not contemplating of getting together simply because you are alone.then GO for it.
It's great that you are on friendly terms because this gives you the opportunity to reminisce all the good times you had and see how you can create better ones NOW by discussing some things you could have done better.

Best of luck.

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Ah, the Hopeless Romantic. (ok I'll quit that) With the 'first marriage' divorce rate at about 50%, I wonder what the success rate is for those who go a second time around. I would hate to again go through the pain of splitting- up, with the same person. I feel, "If it didn't work the first time, it's not gonna work the second.". But that's just me.
P.S.- How ya been?!
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I feel exactly like you.I have been there and it hurt way too much.I would not be able to go through the same pain AGAIN.I like you calling me that.I'm very tired these days Hondo because of school and the exams.Can't wait for the students to finish-so we can relax.Tomorrow they have a break and we are going on an excursion and I'm really not looking forward to it.
Is your activity box working now?
P.S.How have you been?
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All is well. Thanks for asking. I don't have an activity box really. I can see who and when someone commented on one of my answers. Is that it?
I must forage for food. Be back soon. How many hours are we apart? I'm on EST.
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It's 8.30pm here
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So you are 7 hours ahead. Wow, it's a wonder we run across each other at all.
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I know.It's hard for me to keep in touch with some people.
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5:00 here makes it midnight your way. Make the best of your 'excursion' tmrw! Then hopefully you can get some needed rest.
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Thank you Hondo.Talk tomorrow.
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Human nature often takes even more advantage of you the second time. I broke "my no take back rule."3 years ago & ended up homeless with my son & dog to be responsible for. My independence nowadays means more to me than anything.
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Hi Sandra, having trouble finding recent entries from you but I'm off work now till Monday it Friday night here & it's almost 6.30 pm now. Hope to be in sync with you over the weekend. Have a good one.
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Hi Kaz.That's too bad.I did some good ones Lol.Left you messages in your other answers.Kaz,need to talk to you.
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Is all ok with you. Just saw this comment now. It wasn't here yesterday.
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Go to my profile
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Why not go for him again !? Ask him how he feels ! If he feels the same way than obviously you should be trying things out again !

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Your ex probably might be falling in love for you too. Or maybe he never fell out of love?
If you find out that he is falling for you too, be careful not to rush things, or the same problem will happen again.

You might want to really figure out why you broke up with him in the first place, though. He might feel like it was his fault, and he might not want to jump right back into the relationship because he is afraid he will screw things up again.

You should definitely try to learn a little more about him though, so that there aren't anymore unpleasant surprises in the future.

Best of luck to you and your friend!

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Thanks :)
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Sometimes your ex is your ex for a reason. Evaluate the relationship you had before deciding. If he saids to you"trust me" then run. In my experience the things they want you to trust them on or give them the benefit of the doubt over are the things they will fall down over. Be wise & cautious what ever you decide. The 2nd time they usually hurt you worse than the first time. Sometimes it's better to just stay friends. It's called "the no take back rule"

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