Where to look when you are tire of hanging out with your family . i am an older woman and family is always telling me what not to do.
If you have your own house ... stop letting them in, or invite them to leave when they tell you what to do.If you don't have your own house ... get one.
There are senior community centers that offer many activities. And the chance to meet new people.
I am not sure what you are asking .. What are you "looking" for?If you don't like your family telling you what to do or not do .. then you need to stop enabling them .. and start making your own choices.